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Harriet Ann Ralph married Albert Norris in 1876. They already had a
child, Albert Norris Jnr, born in 1874. They went on to have Elizabeth (1877)
and Helen (known as Ellen – 1880), Thomas Gilbert (1882), Violet Lucy Lodge
Norris (1884) and Annabella Courtney Norris (1887-1887). From 1883 newspaper
mentions of Harriet as drunk and using profane language start to appear. In
April 1883 she apparently promised to leave the district, but didn’t and in
March of 1884 there is a detailed account of her husband, Albert ‘deliberately
stabbing her in the face and cutting her about the hands’ being ‘in drink at
the time’ from the resulting court case. This makes interesting reading, with
some strong direction to the jury to find Albert not guilty due to provocation.
The cartoon at the left is originally from Punch, 1st September 1894 - a bit later than Harriet's domestic violence, but typifies a view that a certain class of women 'put up with' assault in marriage. Go to www.victorianlondon.org for great background on Victorian society.
There
is a curious editorial by ‘Cyclop’ under the heading ‘An eye for everything’ (See
this at paperspast - Mataura Ensign, 2 May 1884, Page 5) which gives
the impression that the charges as laid by the Police indicated some sympathy
to Harriet as a victim, and less so for Albert as the perpetrator of violence. Despite speculation that Harriet’s version ‘did
not make sense’ by the defense, the jury convicted, and the Judge summed up
that women should be protected, and gave him three years hard labour.
Without
Albert, Harriet continued having difficulties. She was brought before a
Magistrate in October 1884 for non-payment of support for her two children in
the Cavasham Industrial School. Records (Industrial School records and warrants
from the Kiwi Index NZ Genealogical Society) indicate that not just two, but Albert
Jnr, Ellen, Thomas Gilbert and William Henry were all in care for most of their
childhood.
In
December of 1884 – a bad year for Harriet – she and her youngest sister Violet
Lucy Lodge Ralph were charged with being drunk and disorderly at the Hussar Sports Day.
Another mention in 1885 and again in 1891 indicates that Harriet may have had a
serious alcohol problem - more about her sad state later.
Elizabeth and her husband John are found
in Duke St. Auckland in 1896, but prior to that they may have been living in
Huckerenui, Northland (a mention for John as a Trustee at the Huckerenui
Cemetery in the Kiwi Index). John is apparently working as a gardener.
Then in 1902 Elizabeth’s’ sons, half-brothers
James Henry (Harry) Ralph and John Lewis Horne Jnr are both called before the
Magistrate in Auckland for failing to provide for their mother, Elizabeth. A
number of family members seem to be converging on Auckland by design or chance,
but John Lewis Horne Jnr claims he did not know she was there. He and James are
both directed to pay 10/- a month; James doesn’t and in 1903 is given 14 days
hard labour, but the sentence is suspended for a fortnight, probably because he
didn’t appear in court.
It’s hard to piece together what is
happening with the family because voter’s registrations don’t necessarily reflect
exactly where people are living, or for how long, and there can be inaccuracies
and omissions in registration. John and Elizabeth still seem to be together as
a couple, although we can’t be sure that they did not have periods of separation,
hence the need for maintenance for Elizabeth. John is listed alone in
Christchurch on the Voter’s Register for 1905-1906.
However he appears to be back in Auckland in 1908, and it
sounds like he is not welcome in some drinking establishments.
Auckland Star, 19 June 1908, Page 5
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‘Prohibition
Notices’ were a way of keeping problem drinkers away from particular pubs,
giving the owners and/or other customers a bit of respite from their rowdy
behaviour for a month or two. John promises to keep away from temptation – he is
63. I’m speculating
that this refers to John Lewis senior, on the grounds that it doesn’t sound
like John Jnr, who got married on the 28th February 1908. Still, Elizabeth and John seem to be living a quieter life these days.
By 1911 they have moved to Wellington, in
an area called ‘Northland’.
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